Gross Indecency, Moisés Kaufman’s 1997 play about the trials of Oscar Wilde, presents a triptych montage of a man who dared to pose. Though known for a flamboyance of body language (as if forever jokingly posing for some campy vanity shot), the daring I mean is the non-frivolous type — the posing of dangerous questions. This is how I read the unconscious grammar of Queensberry’s charge: “To Oscar Wilde, posing somdomite [sic]”. The peculiar logic, curious misspelling and suspension of a closing predicate suggest a troubled world in Queensberry’s charge. What is Queensberry saying? That Oscar Wilde is an imposture homosexual, or a sodomite that likes to pose for photos, or perhaps a Kama-Sutrian acrobat of sexual positions? Presumably he means something far less playful - but Freud would have a lot to say about how he bungles his words on this one. If I may venture an irreverent Freudian translation of Queensberry’s line, it would read: “Oscar Wilde dares ask: ‘Sodomy anyone?’” Or to put it more seriously, Can I decide my own sexuality? May I have and enjoy a private sexual life protected from un-welcomed conformity demands?
Perhaps I credit Queensberry’s unconscious with unwarranted profundity, but these at least, are the questions that Kaufman seems to ask in his rendering of Oscar Wilde’s tragic demise. Gross Indecency, in this light, is about the rape of privacy. Or, as Otto Kernberg would put it, the play questions the “analization” of sexuality (the making of sex into nothing more than an offensive dirty joke). Kaufman challenges us post-Victorians, to ask: what is sex? A thing we do? A thing we are? Like human language, does human sexual expression achieve a unique (even exalted) standing in nature? Is it one of the many ways we humans dare define ourselves on our own terms, for our own purposes? Or is it the quintessential embarrassment, a ridiculing reminder that “human” is an arrogant fiction in a world of grunting animals.
For us Westerners enamored with rugged individualism, the courtroom is a particularly seductive arena for myth making and hero worship. The individual on the witness stand evokes images of the noble “defendant” of truth. We hear echoes of the martyr trials of Socrates, Christ, and Galileo. We identify with the accused and their bold claim: “here I stand, I can do no other”. “I will not submit to what I know is false.” By accepting condemnation from fraudulent accusers, the defiant defendant becomes iconic — a heroic champion of humanity’s strivings to claim immortal elevation by telling “the Truth”. But is Oscar Wilde a modern-day martyr-hero? Kaufman seems to want to make him one, but Wilde simply will not comply with the assignment. While he, no doubt, was an artist of great talent, Wilde’s indulgent and irresponsible morality, not to mention his frank lying, reveal him to be too humble a figure for the pantheon of historic martyrs. We must still wait on the coming of the sexual messiah (no pun intended).
Perhaps a greater embarrassment for Wildean idolatry comes from an important fact Kaufman left out of his play. Just prior to Queensberry’s attack on Wilde, he had lost his first-born son to suicide. It is widely believed that Francis Douglas committed suicide after engaging in a scandalous homosexual affair with none other than the Prime Minister of England, Lord Rosebury. Could it be that Queensberry’s grief motivated a displaced, paranoid attack on Wilde? Might he have been afraid of loosing yet another son, not to Oscar Wilde the person, but to what he saw as a shameful (and potentially lethal) use of his son as a sex object? If these questions had been posed in the play, it would have humanized Queensberry to a degree that might have earned him a more sympathetic hearing. He would no longer play the simple one-dimensional villain. Kaufman’s Queensberry is a perversely mean-spirited homophobe. As he rails at Oscar Wilde, he names him an alien “other”, a non-me, a never-me. But a less dichotomous view is quite possible. After all, research on homophobia finds it to be an externalized expression of an internal homoerotic conflict. I am tempted to observe Queensberry’s fascination with boxing and encourage the interested reader to examine Joyce Carol Oates homoerotic thesis, On Boxing. Could it be that Queensberry’s excessive protestations belied an internal struggle with latent homoerotism? If so, we may find Oscar Wilde a duped victim of an updated Oedipal conflict. In this reworking of Oedipus, the mother is the murdered member. The classic Oedipal love triangle collapses into an intolerable dyad. Father and Son share a pederastic desire, but their shameful conspiracy against conventional heterosexuality (the dead wife/mother) necessitates a scapegoat. Into the tragic Greek trap steps Oscar, a fated victim of his own narcissistic dalliance. Wilde’s penchant for masochism only heightens the trap’s seductive allure. Wilde’s love for Lord Alfred Douglas progressively assumes larger-than-life proportions, culminating in grand scale societal disapproval and the looming specter of catastrophe. The effect is to create a self-annihilating “you-and-me-against-the-world” intensity to the lovers’ union. Wilde falls under the spell of an infatuation lock-hold that uncannily conjures the haunt of Dorian Gray.
© 2007 by Rendueles Villalba, MD